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	<title>Comments on: Spousal Abuse and the Legal Implications of Using Spyware</title>
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		<title>By: Frank Evans</title>
		<link>http://scdivorcelaw.com/2009/12/spousal-abuse-and-the-legal-implications-of-using-spyware/comment-page-1/#comment-17</link>
		<dc:creator>Frank Evans</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Sep 2010 10:02:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Two years ago in the mitts of a 32 month long custody dispute I notice my home being entered into as it was in Lake Lure pre divorce... if only I had those trip cameras I would have caught the students my ex paid to pilfer finnacial records when we were exchanging my son.  My wife teaches and has a computer lab and a tech for those computers at her disposal all the time.  In Lake Lure a new computer suddenly began to have trouble and I found a program then - but the computer store could never relocate it.  I photographed the screen and name and yes it was a spy ware that monitored anything set up for it to do but it was hidden in my virus protection and there was no cure.  Not even reformatting.  I bought a new hard drive weeks later there is was.

I moved here a created a locked office so when I was going to meet my son I could pad lock the office.  Kingstree is a quite town and I began to leave the padlock of if I was running to the post office or not going to be away long.  

My new dell laptop with Mcfee was left at home.  It ran a virus check by itself at night. I awoke one morning to find a virus check found a PUP Potentially unwanted program.  It named it and I Googled for info and explained clearly to me that this is not a virus program, it is a maintenance software tool, and a program for business owner to make sure their computers we use for the intended purpose - OK OK.... but it explained that it could not be downloaded by email, or though a properly working firewall (meaning never have two firewalls - use only one - two allows these programs and viruses to trick one egoist the other.  MOST importantly this Keylogger could only be installed by disk of flash card or administrator of a network or wireless network and in that group unless you are good there can be holes - but I chose no wireless, I was hard lined from the out side to my computer.  

The only way it could have been put there the day before was via a flash card - or Thumb drive.  Later explained to me by a network supervise all the needed was about 4 minutes and the have the program parameters (what the want monitored and how frequently and where they want the information transmitted to) He said in big cities the thing to do for cuber criminals is to drop these is offices and people pick them up and figure free thumb drive and then the use it and likely go home with it, so neve let you friend use his thumb drive in your computer because it compounds to proliferate.

44 hours of Dell Tech Support later on a Cell Phone with a bill over $900 I refused to accept Dells service and demanded another computer and only then did I get ridd of the Keelogger.... Police would do nothing even though we had a copy of the instruction file and it was being sent to mu ex email.  It was worthless later in court.  Why, a certified forensic computer expert did not find and verify it was not contaminated like OJ&#039;s glove.

This is serious stuff.  Account numbers clearly recorded.  I am told it is so clean that if you have a Cabelas account the greet you Welcome and if you purchase express you out with the last card you used.... Bank Transfers - no problem  Transaction history - no problem - address book no big deal all updated each day mine the hit 4 times so it would only take about 90 seconded of the disk reading and writing.

There are practical uses for these programs but only in large network environments.

how hard is it to get and to use.... I could have downloaded one -set it up and put it on a thumb drive three times writing this.

If you are contemplating a divorce - see a computer security expert - have them check your wireless router.

These things are as popular as baby monitors now.

My ex had a friend stake out my house.  Walk up act as if to knock and five minutes later gone.

Good luck</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two years ago in the mitts of a 32 month long custody dispute I notice my home being entered into as it was in Lake Lure pre divorce&#8230; if only I had those trip cameras I would have caught the students my ex paid to pilfer finnacial records when we were exchanging my son.  My wife teaches and has a computer lab and a tech for those computers at her disposal all the time.  In Lake Lure a new computer suddenly began to have trouble and I found a program then &#8211; but the computer store could never relocate it.  I photographed the screen and name and yes it was a spy ware that monitored anything set up for it to do but it was hidden in my virus protection and there was no cure.  Not even reformatting.  I bought a new hard drive weeks later there is was.</p>
<p>I moved here a created a locked office so when I was going to meet my son I could pad lock the office.  Kingstree is a quite town and I began to leave the padlock of if I was running to the post office or not going to be away long.  </p>
<p>My new dell laptop with Mcfee was left at home.  It ran a virus check by itself at night. I awoke one morning to find a virus check found a PUP Potentially unwanted program.  It named it and I Googled for info and explained clearly to me that this is not a virus program, it is a maintenance software tool, and a program for business owner to make sure their computers we use for the intended purpose &#8211; OK OK&#8230;. but it explained that it could not be downloaded by email, or though a properly working firewall (meaning never have two firewalls &#8211; use only one &#8211; two allows these programs and viruses to trick one egoist the other.  MOST importantly this Keylogger could only be installed by disk of flash card or administrator of a network or wireless network and in that group unless you are good there can be holes &#8211; but I chose no wireless, I was hard lined from the out side to my computer.  </p>
<p>The only way it could have been put there the day before was via a flash card &#8211; or Thumb drive.  Later explained to me by a network supervise all the needed was about 4 minutes and the have the program parameters (what the want monitored and how frequently and where they want the information transmitted to) He said in big cities the thing to do for cuber criminals is to drop these is offices and people pick them up and figure free thumb drive and then the use it and likely go home with it, so neve let you friend use his thumb drive in your computer because it compounds to proliferate.</p>
<p>44 hours of Dell Tech Support later on a Cell Phone with a bill over $900 I refused to accept Dells service and demanded another computer and only then did I get ridd of the Keelogger&#8230;. Police would do nothing even though we had a copy of the instruction file and it was being sent to mu ex email.  It was worthless later in court.  Why, a certified forensic computer expert did not find and verify it was not contaminated like OJ&#8217;s glove.</p>
<p>This is serious stuff.  Account numbers clearly recorded.  I am told it is so clean that if you have a Cabelas account the greet you Welcome and if you purchase express you out with the last card you used&#8230;. Bank Transfers &#8211; no problem  Transaction history &#8211; no problem &#8211; address book no big deal all updated each day mine the hit 4 times so it would only take about 90 seconded of the disk reading and writing.</p>
<p>There are practical uses for these programs but only in large network environments.</p>
<p>how hard is it to get and to use&#8230;. I could have downloaded one -set it up and put it on a thumb drive three times writing this.</p>
<p>If you are contemplating a divorce &#8211; see a computer security expert &#8211; have them check your wireless router.</p>
<p>These things are as popular as baby monitors now.</p>
<p>My ex had a friend stake out my house.  Walk up act as if to knock and five minutes later gone.</p>
<p>Good luck</p>
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		<title>By: Connie Osborne</title>
		<link>http://scdivorcelaw.com/2009/12/spousal-abuse-and-the-legal-implications-of-using-spyware/comment-page-1/#comment-16</link>
		<dc:creator>Connie Osborne</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 15 Aug 2010 14:15:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have not seen anything on a spouse stalking and accessing e-mails, messages, etc after the other spouse leaves. Is there a specific time after one leaves their spouse that one can see another or date? I left my husband after 36 years of mental and emotional abuse. I started writing to a man about one month after leaving my husband and now he is threatening a Federal tort against me, the other man, and his wife who knew nothing. He has threatened both me, and he and his wife of giving him our emails and messages or he would take them to court and sue them for everything they own. He is trying to blackmail us and I need to know is there legal recourse in stopping him from trying to gain access to our personal e-mails, etc and actions to take against him? I really need to know as this can hurt so many innocent people.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have not seen anything on a spouse stalking and accessing e-mails, messages, etc after the other spouse leaves. Is there a specific time after one leaves their spouse that one can see another or date? I left my husband after 36 years of mental and emotional abuse. I started writing to a man about one month after leaving my husband and now he is threatening a Federal tort against me, the other man, and his wife who knew nothing. He has threatened both me, and he and his wife of giving him our emails and messages or he would take them to court and sue them for everything they own. He is trying to blackmail us and I need to know is there legal recourse in stopping him from trying to gain access to our personal e-mails, etc and actions to take against him? I really need to know as this can hurt so many innocent people.</p>
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